An affair with a married man does not bode well. The crippled lives would be an order of magnitude smaller if the women had known in advance who their fate had brought together and had not been led to beautiful conversations about pure love and unprecedented passion. But married men are smart and cunning.
To establish a relationship with a married man means to provide yourself with a lot of problems and complicate life many times. The return from such a novel is in most cases equal to zero, while the number of spoiled nerves and suffering exceeds all expectations. Therefore, a woman striving for a serious, or at least normal relationship, prudently avoids married women. And everything would be fine, only males burdened with family ties perfectly understand this circumstance, and they try to remain silent about their “marriage” and generally hide this fact in every possible way.
To identify a trickster and dodge his networks will help some signs signaling that your new acquaintance is not an exemplary, but still a family man.
The first sign: everything is a secret
A man, by his behavior, is more like a hero of a spy movie epic than a fan in love.
The pathological fear of public places and streets in general, most likely, does not mean that the man wants to be alone with you, away from the bustle of the earth, but that good people can see you in busy places and inform his legal wife about it.
The hour is uneven and the “second half” itself will see its hubby in company with you. In any case, such an outcome is extremely undesirable for a married gentleman, so it will be flooded with a nightingale, while taking you away from the "society".
You've known each other for a long time, but you still know about your fan, except that his name, surname and mobile number. Everything else is a mystery, covered in darkness, or rather, marriage.
Because the married man will make every effort so that you do not find out his address, home phone number and place of work. About to look into his passport, there can be no question. What can we say about visits to his home or work - you can throw such thoughts out of your head, because this is the privilege of your wife, and your place is in your home, in a hotel room, in a rented apartment or in a dense forest where you arrive by car in order to enjoy the birdsong and wildlife away from civilization.
Sign of the second: greed
Here is a bright line of behavior for a married man. And it's not that you are "lucky" to get in touch with a mean person. By nature, your man may be the most generous in the world, but generosity towards his wife is manifested, he simply can not indulge in frequent gifts and expenses of you. Otherwise, a hole will form in the family budget, and the wife will have a reasonable question: "where did the money go?".
Naturally, this sign is far from 100%, unfortunately, there are just enough misfortunes without a stamp in the passport.
However, if a man is distinguished by obvious cuddling, it is worth taking a closer look at him and checking for the subject of "marriage."
Sign of the third: evenings and weekends are busy
The main companion of a woman who started an affair with a married man is loneliness. And chronic. Most often, she visits her on holidays and weekends, instead of the unexpectedly missing “Romeo”.
Unexpected business trips, unscheduled working days, relatives who had come from the backwoods, a sick cat, spontaneous binge ... let him say what he wants, but if this happens systematically, you will see a 99% married man.
By the way, he will say a lot, quite coherently and beautifully, something, and the fantasy of the swag married women works perfectly, even science fiction writers will envy her.
It is important not to spread your ears under delicious noodles, but to turn on the brain and healthy logic.
By the way, such suitors rarely call in the evenings and even less often answer ladies' calls. And this is not fatigue after work, but conspiracy from the household.
Sign fourth: the lack of photos in social networks
Previously, bars, cafes and nightclubs were the "fishing spots" for married women, where they looked out for their victims. At the same time, these gentlemen seriously risked being caught “hot” by their “companions” in wedding rings.
With the advent of online dating sites, their life has become much easier, and now everyone who wants to take a walk on the side of the family has literally flooded such resources. The sign that the holder of the marriage certificate is sitting on the other side of the screen is the absence of a photo.
Still, the country can and should know its heroes in person, but for the beloved wife this information is completely superfluous.
Naturally, for you he will find a more "tempting" explanation for his modesty.
For example, he is too famous in certain circles to show his presence on a dating site. Or he is on the federal wanted list on an unfair charge, a victim of the law enforcement system, the so-called.
A storyteller, in a word, but we somehow know where the wind is blowing from, and let the villain lead us.
We smoothly approached the main attribute of a married man. We call it "increased accuracy."
Main feature: increased accuracy
It manifests itself literally in everything.
After each trip in his car, and during the trip itself, too, he carefully tidies the interior of the car, eliminating the slightest signs of your stay there.
He will not allow you to accidentally forget lipstick in the glove compartment, and leave your fingernail broken in a fit of passion, lying on the floor.
The seats are thoroughly checked for hair or powder residue. About the "comrade" a separate conversation. His body is protected from hickeys better than the US president from an assassination attempt. Shirts stained with lipstick or smelled of your perfume? This is clearly not about him. He will not allow such impudence, or, especially for such cases, the car has a spare “representative” of the wardrobe.
Using such simple signs, you can easily recognize as an ardent admirer of a married reveler, and protect yourself from deliberate lies and centners of pasta on your hearing. What to do next with it - to send home or go into all seriousness, not counting on positive consequences - it's up to you.
