In the literature you can find thousands of examples praising selfless women who are ready for any sacrifice for their loved ones. But many modern women are sure that the main value in their life is themselves, and men do not always appreciate women who sacrifice their interests and desires for them.
Indeed, the abandonment of their goals and interests does not always allow a woman to take at least some place in the heart of a man. But it is hardly possible to build relations with a man on egoism alone. You need to choose a middle ground, and to find out how close you are to it - answer the following questions:
1. Your gentleman is 30 minutes late on a date. Your actions:
a) call and find out why he is late - 20 points;
b) I left 29 minutes ago - 30 points;
c) I'll wait another 30 minutes - 10 points.
2. Your young man unexpectedly asks for a large amount of money for the development of his business.
a) I will give it to you without hesitation, I do not mind anything for him - 10 points;
b) categorically refuse - 30 points;
c) I will give money on interest and I certify the loan agreement notarially - 20 points.
3. What films do you prefer?
a) dramas and melodramas - 20 points;
b) action movies or thrillers - 10 points;
c) comedy - 30 points.
4. Your loved one did not like your new dress. Your reaction:
a) I’m offended, he might not have upset me, but let him get used to the dress and cultivate good taste - 30 points;
b) I will not wear the dress, I will return it to the store or give it to someone - 10 points;
c) I will not wear this dress on dates with him - 20 points.
5. The young man is going to introduce you to his parents, and you know that they are categorically against your relationship. How do you behave:
a) I’m not going to visit them, why do I need extra negative emotions - 20 points;
b) during the visit I will try my best to please them - 10 points;
c) I will get to know and let you know that they do not seem nice to me, and I am ready to fight them for my happiness - 30 points.
6. This is your first time going to sea together. Will you take your favorite super-open swimsuit with you if your gentleman is very jealous?
a) of course I will, let him see what kind of treasure he got and learns to appreciate it - 20 points;
b) I will not take it, I do not want to give a man an excuse to consider me frivolous - 10 points;
c) and what's the difference, I prefer to sunbathe on nudist beaches - 30 points.
7. You were offered an interesting and well-paid job abroad, but your young man does not have the opportunity to travel with you. Would you accept a similar offer?
a) naturally, decent work is much more difficult to find than a gentleman - 30 points;
b) accept, check the feelings of time and distance will not be amiss - 20 points;
c) no, I can’t imagine life without my beloved and am very afraid of losing it - 10 points.
8. Imagine that the ship on which you went on a cruise together is sinking, and you have one life jacket for two. How will you share?
a) the man must give it to the woman, and he will swim out as he can - 30 points;
b) I will give my life jacket to my beloved; I do not want to be saved without it - 10 points;
c) together we’ll attack someone and get another life jacket - 20 points.
9. Your young man forgot about your birthday. How do you feel about this?
a) I will make a present to myself - I will become a woman free from obligations to this unworthy - 30 points;
b) I will treat you with understanding, because gifts and congratulations are not so important if there is love - 10 points;
c) I will demand to compensate the moral damage caused to me by a very expensive gift - 20 points.
10. Your young man wants you to lose weight and become slimmer. Your actions?
a) I will sit on a strict diet and I will go in for sports for several hours a day - 10 points;
b) I promise to go on a diet and then eat a couple of cakes - 20 points;
c) either he loves me the way I am or I'm looking for another gentleman - 30 points.
11. You are invited together to an important banquet for your gentleman, but suddenly you have a fever and other cold symptoms. Will you go to a banquet?
a) of course I’ll go, he should know that I will not fail him under any circumstances - 10 points;
b) nothing can be more important than my health for him: I’ll lie under the covers, and let him make tea and buy vitamins for me - 30 points;
c) I’ll ask my girlfriend to go instead of me, so as not to embarrass people with my sick look - 20 points.
12. You have always dreamed of a luxurious white dress and a wedding with a large number of guests, but it seems to your groom as philistinism and a waste of money. Would you agree with him?
a) no, I want a wedding and a point! - 30 points;
b) of course I agree, for me the main thing is to become his wife - 10 points;
c) I agree if, instead of organizing a celebration, he will give me a mink coat, a diamond ring or a good car - 20 points.
Count the number of points you score.
If you have scored from 120 to 180 points, then the wives of the Decembrists next to you should feel selfish, spoiled and heartless mistresses. You are ready for anything for your beloved! But is it not your concern that bothers him, and is it not boring for him with you, because your actions are so understandable and predictable?
If you have scored from 190 to 270 points - You are a very pragmatic woman, sometimes even tough, but you respect your young man and in many situations are ready to compromise. But only with such a rational approach to relations, the question arises - do you know the meaning of the word “passion”?
If you have scored more than 280 points - You haven’t yet known true love, and men who are lucky enough to at least captivate you should be content with the role assigned to them. There are many men around, and you are alone. And when a great feeling comes - everything will fall into place itself, the acquired self-esteem will not allow you to sacrifice yourself for the sake of an unworthy man.
Now check what your partner is ready for you!
