Here you go. Again. You go home from work in the evening, carry two heavy packages (packed like this!) With potatoes, sausage, milk and other food, think about what kind of gibberish was given to the children’s house and did the husband walk the dog ... And then IT suddenly jumps out of the darkness. Dressed not for the weather, but with a gorgeous bouquet, which until recently was a flower bed in the park. He looks at you and asks in a plaintive voice:
- Natalya Sergeevna (Taisia Petrovna, Alevtina Vasilyevna - depending on circumstances), are you afraid?
- I was glad. That it’s you, not a maniac. “And you understand that you are telling the truth.” And after that, from the pre-infarction state you go into a semi-hysterical one. Because you know - now the flower broom will be presented, followed by the oath of confession of love to the grave. The fact that you are ten years older than Romeo does not bother. As, however, and your married status, because in order to be together, he agrees to even adopt your current spouse. Eh, youthful maximalism ...
Is that familiar?
If not, then lucky.
And if so, then most likely a million and a couple of dozen options for what to do turn around in my head. And vague doubts torment me - my husband forgot for a long time what words they make of compliments, and this cute little boy is ready to carry it in his arms. Maybe you really get a divorce? Although no, probably not worth it. You’ll have to share the cottage, and you won’t get the car. But how can one put the material above the senses? That is the question!
And this question is wrong. We must start from the very beginning - with love serenades. You never know what makes a young man prove that all ages are submissive to love. This, for example, could be:
- personal gain - especially if a woman has already achieved a lot in her life;
- the desire to prove to yourself or friends that the caste of "real men" is a stereotype that if such a serious and respectable lady draws attention to me, then I'm really cool;
- pickup - the modern entertainment of young and green males who believe that they can achieve any woman;
- well, true love cannot be denied. Just remember what you once invested in this concept - walks under the moon, teddy bears with hearts in their paws, balloons with the inscription "I LOVE YOU" and dizzying kisses on a bench near the entrance. And what have these landmarks evolved over time? That's the same. So there is nothing to expect from the young gentleman of everything that you receive from your husband, although you often do not notice this. Moral and physical support, understanding of what a woman needs - men have been going to this for years.
So, the broom is in the vase (it’s not in the bin, the flowers are not to blame for anything), the bags are in the kitchen, the nerves are in order. Life goes on. And it's good that sometimes gray everyday life is brightened up by such adventures. Upon reflection, you begin to appreciate more that is, and look into the future realistically.
