You’ve been together for several years now, and you naively believe that you “know all of its cracks”? Do not forget that a man shares his innermost only with the woman dearest to him ... Yes, yes - with his mother. And mothers know much more about their sons than we do about their soul mates. Through laboratory experiments and torture of men by starvation, we still managed to find out what secrets their mothers keep. So it turns out ...
Parting with the ex was not at all what he tells
According to him, he had a girlfriend before you, but "everything was not serious", they calmly parted and he devoted all his unrequited love to you. But his mother remembers very well how she ironed shirts for dates, helped to buy flowers, taught her how to cook borscht “as he loves”, as she already called her daughter-in-law among her friends ... She remembers the reasons for parting, and the son’s tears, and his inept attempts binge and cheating, lingering depression and statements in the spirit: "I do not need anyone else, only her!" Do not doubt, she will never tell you about it. And on the other hand - do you need it? We women love to be jealous of the past.
You cook not as good as he tells you
“You know, mom,” your half declares, eating a third plate of borscht in her mother’s kitchen and pushing meat salad to her, “Well, she doesn’t manage to cook as tasty as you cook.” Mom is undoubtedly pleased. Mom feels she is a winner and understands that borsch and salads still “holds” her son in her power. After eating, he comes home and gently praises your sushi, over which you fought for three hours. Do you want to know such a truth? Hardly. Otherwise, he will go with things for eternal feeding to his mother. Is it necessary to compete with mom, copying her dishes? It's useless. He will carry the whole memory of his mother’s borsch and salad throughout his life. Just be yourself. Get used to it.
Meeting with you, he actively flirted with others
While you were making plans and already imagining yourself in a veil, at that time he would ask: "Mom, who is better? Anya or Lena?" Mom sighed, poured a new plate of borsch and began to explain that Anya is an adult, smart, purposeful girl, and her friends tell very different things about Lena ... Their conversation could have happened this way or that. Just don’t say that you yourself didn’t flirt with two or three men, trying to choose the only one a little later. So men in this regard are no better. And most importantly - you will never know about it. At least from his mom.
He was not always so decent and right.
He dresses well, behaves decently, drinks in moderation, knows the rules of etiquette, and sometimes he can reproach you for his overly cheeky behavior. But his mother still remembers the calls to the children's room of the police, the recipes for the solutions from over-drinking and the hangover, the phones of the people who helped to "smear off" the active son from the next alteration. And you will never know why he doesn’t like cops so much, why he doesn’t drink strong drinks and where does he get that scar from his left temple. Although, we do not exclude that a certain part of men likes to present teenage “exploits” as something outstanding.
He's not so insensitive at all
This is male nature - in front of his wife, he always wants to seem like an alpha male, brutal and merciless. But in front of mom you can give free rein to feelings - and poke, and complain, and even cry. This, perhaps, is for the best - can you imagine what it would be like to live with a man who periodically whines? And so ... He gave his mother his soul, and comes home with a real, confident head of the family. This is perhaps the only secret that benefits your relationship.
