Without a doubt, having a baby is a great happiness for every mom. But after the appearance of a little man in the family, the usual way of life changes dramatically and all the forces and time are spent on daily care for the baby. Nowadays, unfortunately, not all mothers can afford to devote themselves entirely to the child: lack of money, the need to continue their studies, health problems and much more. And it happens that there is simply not enough strength. All this makes young parents think about the appearance of a nanny in the family. The Women's Opinion portal decided to conduct a survey on the topic: "Does the child need a nanny?" and find out how many modern women from Russia are ready to resort to the services of a governess.
The survey results showed that 47.8% of ladies surveyed prefer to involve grandparents in the process of raising a child. They believe that since the grandmother, no one will look after the child and under no circumstances do these women want to resort to the help of a nanny. And the prospect of getting a spoiled child back does not scare them.
Grandparents, this is good, but what if they are not nearby or for some other reason they can’t devote time to their grandchildren? 29.3% of Russians want to cope on their own and not trust their child to anyone but themselves. “This is my long-awaited child and only I know how to properly educate him,” these respondents express their opinion. Lack of money, a gap in their careers they don’t care, the main thing is to devote yourself entirely to the child. In their opinion, this is the best contribution to the future of the whole family.
22.9% of respondents are sure that it is simply necessary to resort to the services of a nanny in the modern world of rampant confusion. These women do not have enough strength and time to cope with the child themselves due to a busy schedule at work, study or banal fatigue. Moreover, these Russians, believe that the nanny is much better than the grandmother. "The nanny will not criticize your methods of education, do things in your own way, indulge too much or strive to replace your parents, because he perfectly understands that it is very simple to remain without work," they are sure. And they prefer to dose communication between grandparents so as not to spoil their beloved child.
More recently, the question of nannies was not even addressed by parents. Traditionally, the husband earned money, the wife took care of the child, and grandparents provided all possible assistance. Times are changing, but as the results of the survey show, even today most parents prefer to attract grandparents instead of strangers in the difficult process of raising children.
The survey involved 1160 women from 92 cities of Russia aged 20 to 45 years.
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The nanny, on the contrary, does not talk with her, does not allow arranging tantrums and whims. Of course, we go to grandmother and love her, but only for dinner or a holiday, and my husband and I are engaged in upbringing, turning to a specialist for help.
And by the way, when I hired a bon person, the manager said that the demand is huge for the nannies now. Apparently, we are already more than 22.9%)
